M&H sent me a new connector to replace the clear connector that had the correct design to match the courtesy light harness. Popped the clear one off and stuck the new on. Problem solved. Next issue - what is the part number of the bulb that goes in this courtesy light harness from painless (I called them - they are closed today). It looks to be an 1156 style bulb, but shorter in height.
https://www.painlessperformance.com/wc/30708