I'll take a stab at it....
First, if it's all new, I'd ask the place you got it from for their recommendation, if that's possible.
In my case, I got a complete Stage 3 upgrade R134a system from 'Classic Auto Air' with a sanden compressor. They state DO NOT add oil, since the compressor is already loaded with a full system charge. In fact, they want you to flush the rest of the system out if it was existing so as not to have too much oil (and get rid of old/bad oil, etc).
As far as refrigerant charge, they said 45 oz nominal, but in a 42-48 oz range. Start out with 42 oz, monitor center vent temp and add an oz at a time until it either stops lowering the vent outlet temperature, or starts rising.